whats in his mind?...i cant understand him at all..plz help..confused

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whats in his mind?...i cant understand him at all..plz help..confused

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Started 2 years ago by nan
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[b]I fell in love with a boy and proposed him some months back but v hardly know each other
he responded
he replied
but neither gave a affirmative nor negative reply :( :(i cant make out anything from it..i myself confused...i thought he doesnt wanna hurt me(he is a gud guy)i dont wanna bother him and stayed away..
after this,
i dint contact him
but he has messaged me twice..very rare(sms)
mailed me 5-6 times(all forwards and no hai's)[not only me to some 5-6 friends ids]
..and i used to send back some nice forwards
days went by and my heart was very troubled...i thought he feels sorry for me or maybe unable to leave me fearing if i might commit suicide :-o(The baddest thing in him is he doesnt hurt anybody:(:( )..i mailed him that he need not feel sorry or fear if i might get hurt and waved him gudbye saying that i wont contact him or cross his life.
i deleted my id after that and started a new one...

i turned myself to spiritual side after that as i was desperately needing some diversion to forget him..
a month went by..
yesterday he messaged me
"hi !!morning number atleast exists or changed?"
i thought for a long while whether to reply or not
i replied and he said "right madam"
i just dont wanna cut the conv right away
and asked him 'y' with a confused smiley..
he asked "how do u do that?"
i asked "which"
he said "some smiley" and the conv diverted(i never noticed it until i finished messaging)
and finally
he asked "y u deleted mail id.am feeling bad if its becoz of me"
i replied"sry sry!!this is my new one....."
he replied thank u and it ended
HIS words were very limited..but he is actually a easy-going talkative guy
after this,he sent me an invitation in gtalk
but not talking even when online :(
he is in touch thru email fwds only
i even think if he wanna check if i m dead or alive :(
i m very confused..
i m standing in the border unable to step on either side but i m still loving him
i cant understand him at all.....
plz helppppppppp[/b]

Posted 2 years ago #
SaurabhStar , the admin
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He loves me, he loves me not, he loves me, he loves me not - :? Lots of confusion, little conclusion building more and more sensation as time passes by - Right Nan ?
Hello and Welcome to the lovers community here.
I'll definitely answer all of your questions and confusion . I think he is already engages with someone else. I can certainly say this. You are in love with him. But he is not. He wants to have you as a friend but you don't. You want his love to cherish your life. You are a gal who is more determined, stubborn kind. You're not satisfied with his behavior and won't be in future too. The boy is not certain about what he is doing.
Now the thing is - [b]You couldn't be his best friend[/b] - ya, this is true. You couldn't be the one with whom he could express anything about his life. He has an affair already with someone else but he couldn't tell this to you. He is a flexible kinda guy who is prefilled with his own thoughts.
He gets in contact with you from time to time - do you think he cares for you ? - The answer is no. He is not mature enough to handle your emotion. He contacts you for his own self.
Let me tell you a few more things, You didn't propose to him at the best time. You didn't helped him understand himself till date. [b]Now Where are You ? - You know certainly[/b] .
okie, What should you do now ? - The answer depends on what do you really desire. From your post, I figured out that you certainly don't want to loose him, even few words of him relieve you. Love hurts, na? It is better to inspire your self and your stand. It is better to be firm and face the sun, the moon with a daring n determined soul. Forget about him, don't contact him. Feel the air. Feel space. Relate yourself with your other friends. GOD - the supremacy is there. GOD has something different & more exclusive in store for you pretty. I advise you not to align yourself with a guy who is not yet in the same line of life as you are.
If you have any more questions, feel free to ask here. Remember whatever I say, there are lots of reasons and analysis following the same. Sometimes what I say is not to give you an answer but to give your world a hope and a cherished life, a power and priority, a connection and contrast.
Cherish, smile please. You're a very good charming girl and a smile can only fit your charm. :)

Posted 2 years ago #

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