what is love ?

Of late, I carried a questionnaire with  some interested people from different points of map about ‘what is love‘ or what is true love.. The answer most common was Love is something undefined, not fully expressed & can not be worded.. Well this very thing holds true but lets for the sake of practicality try to conclude what is love (nature of love, expression of love, anatomy and physiology of love 8-O  ) ..

A few notable n interesting answers that I got are:

Love is …………………. The only way to answer these dots is through expression / feelings and certainly words can’t sum our loving expression..

Love hurts, much more than anything else in this world could but I still hope n live for love..

Love is anything that provides us pleasure from within but that pleasure is not momentary but permanent..

Some1 has said, “Love is friendship set on fire”.. I strongly believe this love quote.

Love is beyond words, unreasonably summed up in feelings and reasonably incomplete..

Each of the replies that i got in respect to my question about definition of love holds true but at the same time contextual in form.. If u r in love, u appreciate love and the feelings, sensation, experience .. But when it goes hard time in your love relationship, u feel it merciless n very cruel.. And when love relationship ends with your beloved, u feel love as living mistake of yours.. (this very exercise is what applies to most people and their views about love )

Does love has universal and not contextual definition ? – Love is contextual and the feelings and expression is very personalised when it come to love.  love is unique.  Love is not just between couple of opposite sex but also between father and son or daughter, brother n sister, mother n her child, between friends.. And in all cases , love and the inherent feelings, associations, attachment, inclination, intimacy differ..

Is love contained within limits ? – Love is limitless and in any form, it stays beyond boundaries or so called limits, u can’t restrict this feeling of love, if it is restricted, it is not love.. Also u might have heard stories of a boy from india and a girl from pakistan meet, mingle, marry and live and love happily forever.. Even physical boundaries can’t bind love within its bounds.

Is love phase of life ? – Love is eternal, increasing and needy ( Love wants more love ) .. It doesn’t just fill up a particular age or phase of ur life.. It fills up ur entire living phrase. Neither the love dies nor the lovers ( Romeo and Juliet – a living example )..

What is opposite of love ? - If ur mind contemplated the word “HATE” as being opposite to love, let me say, I am talking about instinctual nature of love, not english grammar.. Nothing is opposite to love or nothing can stand opposite to love ( love is almighty ) It is said, whom you hate, the one u love. Well this is not true in every conentext but certainly this statement has got meaning and sense in certain situation.. Actually if you hate a person whom you loved years ago, then I must say you still love him / her and this love can be called pessimistic love and you are still a lover ( and may remain in future)..

Have I redefined love (love redefined ) ? – No, I have reloaded love   (love reloaded) ..

To conclude , I say, “Love is aesthetic romance of life”

Love is muaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh

To reflect upon expansive or running character of love, I need to add more posts and points but keeping in view my busy schedule, I’ll add more later in my next posts..

Some of upcoming posts:

How to get gorgeous girlfriends  >>

Relationship Revitalising Tips  >>

Who is She  >>